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You can see it even through their scarves etc and not all dress that way, mainly the married ones do. It also depends on how conservative the family is and where they are from.

In fact he left for back home when I was 8 months pregnant with my 2nd son and he didn't even see him till one month had passed. Why cant I murder and rape at will and still be loved? And yes you have to have your shit together. In my interactions, of course there are respectful and disrespectful men in all cultures.

Racist Date My Race man dates Muslim woman

So I'm 25 years old, have a reputable well paid job, live on my own and I have a white boyfriend. We've been going out for a couple of years now, and I know we both if things continue to go really well are thinking about marriage now. The biggest obstacle is my parents who are I own are going to be absolutely devastated- and I really cant stress this enough. To them to marry a BRITISH Pakistani is like - whoa if you want a decent a guy you'd marry from back home where you can be truly sure of the persons character. So never mind a white guy. My boyfriend - now I know you're going to be skeptical the following because you think I'm in love so can't see any bad, believe me I can but this guy, is 1 in a million. A kind, intelligent, 'good hearted' type of guy. I know I'm very lucky to have found someone like him, and the thought of letting him go is unbearable. I love my family I really do, and my parents are kind people but its been ingrained in them that family honour within the community is extremely important. And I know they love me as well, but I KNOW they would rather I married no one than a white guy. And that to me is unimaginable because all I've every wanted is a family of my own. I wouldnt be just losing my parents, but my relatives and religious Muslim friends as well I would like advice from other Asians who have seen or experienced themselves how it all pans out if the couple marry regardless of their parents view. Do the parents eventually come round? Sorry this has been a bit of a rant. Basically I've met an amazing guy whom I want to marry but I don't want to lose family. What do I do.... So I'm 25 years old, have a reputable well paid job, live on my own and I have a white boyfriend. We've been going out for a couple of years now, and I know we both if things continue to go really well are thinking about marriage now. The biggest obstacle is my parents who are I own are going to be absolutely devastated- and I really cant stress this enough. To them to marry a BRITISH Pakistani is like - whoa if you want a decent a guy you'd marry from back home where you can be truly sure of the persons character. So never mind a white guy. My boyfriend - now I know you're going to be skeptical the following because you think I'm in love so can't see any bad, believe me I can but this guy, is 1 in a million. A kind, intelligent, 'good hearted' type of guy. I know I'm very lucky to have found someone like him, and the thought of letting him go is unbearable. I love my family I really do, and my parents are kind people but its been ingrained in them that family honour within the community is extremely important. And I know they love me as well, but I KNOW they would rather I married no one than a white guy. And that to me is unimaginable because all I've every wanted is a family of my own. I wouldnt be just losing my parents, but my relatives and religious Muslim friends as well I would like advice from other Asians who have seen or experienced themselves how it all pans out if the couple marry regardless of their parents view. Do the parents eventually come round? Sorry this has been a bit of a rant. Basically I've met an amazing guy whom I want to marry but I don't want to lose family. What do I do.... Ive only ever seen one example that an interfaith marriage can work. But even then the woman was white and she converted to marry the Muslim man that she loved. At first no one accepted her in the community but eventually as she has had kids and her husband has stuck by her for all these years she has been treated more as a Muslim woman. Although, behind her back is a different story... Tbh there have been Asians that have ran off with or married another Asian against the wishes of theirs and even they have been disowned because honour is actually a massive thing especially in the Muslim Pakistani culture and this is both bekus of religion and the societal views we have instilled in all of us. I would suggest that although u love him u need to sit down and really weigh out whether he is worth losing everything? Because if you do marry him, u may be disowned and if not, if your parents are fine with it, u will be talked about and stigmatised by everyone, all of your friends and anyone you are close to. And then it doesn't just stop there, when u are to have children they also will be stigmatised and hated by all the Muslims and some parents will even go so far as to fill their children's heads with stuff against u and ur children so even ur kids will have it tough. If u genuinely think tat u wud be able to live knowing everyone is talking about u all the time and that they all hate u for marrying the guy u want then ur brace enough to marry him unlike most people in ur situation who realise all of this and decide it's not worth being hated by everyone and potentially disowned and hated by their own family. Would he consider converting? They might be more open to it if he was Muslim. I think you should just consider those things first because that's usually what parents are thinking about when you say you want to marry someone outside the culture and religion. If you think you can make it work then maybe you could introduce him as a work colleague or friend first in a very casual way maybe just to your mum, and see how she reacts to him. That way you can get an idea of what she thinks of him as a person rather than as a potential spouse. Also I think you should make it clear to your parents that life with a British guy whether he's white or British Pakistani will always be better than life with someone who's come fresh from back home and will probably run off as soon as he gets his red passport. Make them aware that a guy you meet in the UK will be able to support you better, will most likely have a decent job and be quite educated too. That's the kind of stuff Asian parents want to hear. So I'm 25 years old, have a reputable well paid job, live on my own and I have a white boyfriend. We've been going out for a couple of years now, and I know we both if things continue to go really well are thinking about marriage now. The biggest obstacle is my parents who are I own are going to be absolutely devastated- and I really cant stress this enough. To them to marry a BRITISH Pakistani is like - whoa if you want a decent a guy you'd marry from back home where you can be truly sure of the persons character. So never mind a white guy. My boyfriend - now I know you're going to be skeptical the following because you think I'm in love so can't see any bad, believe me I can but this guy, is 1 in a million. A kind, intelligent, 'good hearted' type of guy. I know I'm very lucky to have found someone like him, and the thought of letting him go is unbearable. I love my family I really do, and my parents are kind people but its been ingrained in them that family honour within the community is extremely important. And I know they love me as well, but I KNOW they would rather I married no one than a white guy. And that to me is unimaginable because all I've every wanted is a family of my own. I wouldnt be just losing my parents, but my relatives and religious Muslim friends as well I would like advice from other Asians who have seen or experienced themselves how it all pans out if the couple marry regardless of their parents view. Do the parents eventually come round? Sorry this has been a bit of a rant. Basically I've met an amazing guy whom I want to marry but I don't want to lose family. What do I do.... I really can't stomach it when people generalise races as religions and vice versa yet get offended when people stereotype them - you're actually already stereotyping yourself - it's quite hypocritical, surely? And then it doesn't just stop there, when u are to have children they also will be stigmatised and hated by all the Muslims and some parents will even go so far as to fill their children's heads with stuff against u and ur children so even ur kids will have it tough. Muslims are such nice people. And I know they love me as well, but I KNOW they would rather I married no one than a white guy. And that to me is unimaginable because all I've every wanted is a family of my own. I wouldnt be just losing my parents, but my relatives and religious Muslim friends as well Not that kind apparently. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

As you see I all this information is taken into account if I wanted a long term relationship with a American girl, plus these are the questions you should ask your self and then you will see what an For guy thinks of you. P7:That first paragraph,you will get a lot of shit for it. Part of the problem in the west is that we take the worst scum bag Muslims. Stop living in the past. Espeically that gay guy with a topless man in his north. It strongly depends on how they were raised and educated as well as the country they grew up in.